People always do their best when you let go. While you feel you might be the only thing keeping someone whole, happy or strong in fact you are the thing keeping them broken, sad and weak because they are not addressing their pain. People are strong, let go of their hand and let them travel down their path so that they can resolve their pain and realize themselves. Let go and have compassion at a distance, know they are just fine and doing just what they need to do. Know that they will live out their life just as they planned.