Arguing with someone to convince them of your viewpoint is like pouring gasoline on a fire to put it out. It is not them you must convince of anything it is you that you must convince your position warrants action. Stop arguing and clear things up calmly and move forward or stop arguing and just move on.
The eyes are useless if the mind is blind.
The ears are just ornaments if the heart is closed.
The mouth is just a noise maker if the soul is silenced.
Only when you are in balance can you speak truth with kindness and awareness.
Most of the time it is not one single impactful act that causes the damage in your life. It is the length that you are exposed to that act. How long you stay in the situation either because you can’t find a way out, don’t know there is a way out, or you live there emotionally for years after it happens. Sometimes it is easy to remove yourself from the situation and other times it is not.
What should be foremost in your mind once you are safely removed from the situation is that you are making progress on an emotional level and not reliving the situation over and over. Having physically removed yourself but keeping your mind there is like still being there completely. There are always people who can help you during and after, you don’t have to move forward alone but you do need to move forward. You deserve to be happy.
Francisco E. Alvarez, Curandero
Twitter @Curandero4
www.casadelcurandoer.com
www.facebook.com/Casa.Del.Curandero/
Happiness starts with you. You can’t find it in someone else, no partner no matter how devoted can fill the empty spot you have, only you can do that. No job, no amount of money or titles will fill that spot. Embracing who you are in all your glories contradictions is the start of being happy.
Francisco E. Alvarez, Curandero
Twitter @Curandero4
www.casadelcurandoer.com
www.facebook.com/Casa.Del.Curandero/
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