Guest post from Dear Human’s Blog
THE WORK Dear Human, Everyday that you awaken you are tasked with the work. Not going to your place of employment. Not getting the kids off to school or the house cleaned. Those are your jobs. And they matter. Yet the sacred work still remains. It is your ultimate purpose, from which you will […]
There is nothing more beautiful and powerful than a smile that has struggled through the tears. Don’t regret your time, even the moments that were filled with hurt.
Francisco E. Alvarez, Curandero
Twitter @Curandero4
www.casadelcurandoer.com
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Happiness starts with you. You can’t find it in someone else, no partner no matter how devoted can fill the empty spot you have, only you can do that. No job, no amount of money or titles will fill that spot. Embracing who you are in all your glories contradictions is the start of being happy.
Francisco E. Alvarez, Curandero
Twitter @Curandero4
www.casadelcurandoer.com
www.facebook.com/Casa.Del.Curandero/
There’s so much more to life than finding someone who will want you, or being sad over someone who doesn’t. There’s a lot of wonderful times to be spent discovering yourself without hoping someone will fall in love with you along the way, and it doesn’t need to be painful or empty. You need to fill yourself up with love.
Francisco E. Alvarez, Curandero
Twitter @Curandero4
www.casadelcurandoer.com
www.facebook.com/Casa.Del.Curandero/
There are no lessons only examples. We are shown examples of things, situations, and outcomes. It is how we choose to engage in these examples that can make them a lesson rather than just and example. If we can reserve how we emotionally engage we can save the lesson.
Francisco E. Alvarez, Curandero
Twitter @Curandero4
www.casadelcurandoer.com
www.facebook.com/Casa.Del.Curandero/
I have heard it and said it, “I just want someone there to witness my life.”
Sometimes we get lost in the idea that only one person can witness our life, that it has to be that one intimate partner that is to witness us being here in all our glory no matter how joyful or ugly it can be at times.
Look beyond that idea and consider that we share intimate parts of our life with friends and family. We have a community witnessing our life and as is the custom at the end of our life they all come together and share the person that they knew thus completing our wish of having our life witnessed in all its facets.
We are too grand and too interesting for one person to witness us, it takes a community.
Thank you to Gina Hutchings and Teri Liddle for perspective, love, and joy on my journey.
Francisco E. Alvarez, Curandero
Twitter @Curandero4
www.casadelcurandoer.com
www.facebook.com/Casa.Del.Curandero/
The real question is not whether life exists after death.
The real question is are you alive before your death.
Francisco E. Alvarez, Curandero
Twitter @Curandero4
www.casadelcurandoer.com
www.facebook.com/Casa.Del.Curandero/
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