You can’t hide from personal pain. You can’t sleep it off. You can’t run from it. You can’t wish it away. Nothing external will help you get rid of that pain. You must turn towards it and embrace it, know it is yours and you have power over it. Look at it, face it, examine it and within it find the key that unlocks its hold on you. See it for the power it no longer has and the perceived power you are giving it. When there is no separation from your God source nothing can defeat or confine you because nothing is stronger than that source.