We have free will. The ability to choose every moment how we want our lives to be, so when you make bad choices don’t blame it on circumstances, other people or society. It was a choice by you that activated the energy to create the result. THINK before you choose.
Casa Del Curandero 
one of my favorite lines from a RUSH song
If you choose not to decide you still have made a choice
How true that is and how many people don’t understand it. Thank you for your insightful comment.