Do you find that when someone wrongs you or disregards your wishes or ideas that you get trapped. You become a prisoner of the cruel perception or act that someone has imposed on you. Well you become a prisoner of your own unresolved issues. The person or persons that you believe have wronged you are just a reflection of those things you need to look at and resolve in your spiritual path. If you choose to keep learning the lesson from the same person then they truly seem like your jailer, but in fact you have the key to walk out of the self imposed prison at anytime if you search within.