Column One is for things you believe to be true about you good and bad
Column Two is for things people say you are or think you are good or bad
Column Three for things you wish to be.
Now in column one really see if any of those things in that column are true about you. Be honest even if you perceive it to be a bad trait. Don’t let the ego make you believe the good ones that you are truly not.
Column two is were you will cross off things people think you are good or bad and you are not, search your heart be honest, when done move on to column three
Column three look at the things you wish you could be or want to be and be honest about how hard you are will to work at them and how many you truly can obtain.
From here on you will make two lists.
Now list all the things that are negative in your mind and look at them one more time see if they are truly yours and can not be changed. If they are yours then know them be aware of when these traits come up so you can control them not be surprised or ruled by them.
Now list the things you want to be or wish to become be honest don’t let ego trick you only keep the things you know you can be even if the work is hard.
Now from list one see how they impact list two. You must embrace those things that will impact list two because they will stop you from moving forward. Don’t be ashamed of anything you perceive to be negative only you will ever know what they happen to be.
The longer you lie to yourself about who you are the longer it will take to find the person you want. Even if your soulmate appears and sees you truly you will be to lost in yourself not to understand why they are so attracted to you and you will not see the values they have you really need in your life.